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After salvation, the most important choice you will need to make is
who to marry. This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will
suffer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy forever. A bad
marriage can affect every other area of your life.
This subject is
so important, so many married people are hoping to be single again so as
to make the right choice. If you are single please don't just be in a
hurry to get married, you have the best opportunity to prepare for it.
For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and
For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and
physically.
Just like an elephant
cannot marry an ant so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an
elephant marries an ant how would they live, if a goat marries a fish
where would they meet? You must look for a Godly man or a Godly woman to
marry, nothing can beat this.
The devil's primary target is the family. He knows that everyone
belongs to a family and if he can make two wrong people meet then he has
succeeded affecting the community and nations negatively. Ignore your
age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is
far worse. God has somebody for you but you must set your priorities
right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?
Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will
make you better while you make him better. It is about destiny. That is
why you must know your purpose before you get married. Genesis 2:18.
You must pray before you choose. God knows the best person for you, it
is only wise to seek His will. It is very easy to know God's will when
sex is not involved. The moment sex is involved and you want to know His
will then He will blank you out. Why? Because you have broken His first
Law of NO SEX before marriage.
If you have had sex in the past
then you need to repent totally and stay away from each other for
sometime then you can seek the face of God.
Your marriage will not be hell on earth. Your marriage will be honorable in the name of Jesus Christ.
Don't marry for sex, don't marry because you are of age, don't marry
because you are getting old, don't marry because you are lonely, don't
marry because you need someone to support you financially, don't marry
because you mistakenly got pregnant, don't marry because you don't want
to lose the person, don't marry because of family pressures, don't marry
because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you
see, don't marry because all your friends are getting married.
But get married because you want to fulfill destiny. Get married because
you want to be a help mate. As a man, get married because you want to
fulfill your purpose. God will help you in choosing, please let His will
be done. Amen
Forward to the singles you love
...By Ifeanyinwa Joy Sunday
Wow.... Nice one Ify!!!
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